The No Contact Rule

Without a question, the no contact rule is the most effective way of creating a deep impact on ones ex's memory. Though, intuition says that your ex will forget you during the no contact rule or any novice guy who has no sense of relationship games will suggest you abstaining the no contact rule.

The no contact rule is as effective as a paracetamol is for fever. It has about 90% success rate and definitely your ex is going to take their phone and call you back. But the no contact rule have to be followed with strict standards.

Why it works ?

You'll follow the no contact rule only if you were dumped. Had break-up been your idea you'd be having romance with your beloved. Right?

Space plays a very significant role during the no contact rule. I must say that space is the backbone of the no contact rule. Post breakup, you bombarded your ex with your calls and texts and during time you completely loose your value before them. Ultimately, they tend to ignore you even more hoping to permanently stay away from you.

Now, when you decide to follow the no contact rule, you set them free. You don't call them for 9 months or 1 year. During this period, they may get into innumerable relationships but once they don't see you begging before them, they become curious. The more days you don't contact them, the more they think about you.

I know it is not easy. It's tougher than you can imagine. Every moment you will feel like taking your phone and dropping them a message or a call. And you've to stop yourself from accidentally flooding into them.

I've been into all this and it's like stopping your breath for 9 months. I tried to follow the no contact rule again and again. I'd control myself for a week or two but then I'd take my phone call them and “I love you , please don't leave me. I'll die without you” yes. I'd do it twice or thrice every month, thus the no contact rule couldn't work.

Then finally , I accepted the truth and left everything. I cried continuously for a week like a child does- bitterly.

I never called her again and then year later she herself called me to ask how was I doing.

This is the real power of the no contact rule. Once you stop calling or contacting them by any means, the begin to wonder - where the hell are you. They start to miss you. Ultimately, they forget all your negative traits and remember only the good ones, with the passage of time.

This was not just mine case, I have seen many guys who got back their ex just by strictly following the no contact rule. Also , I've helped a number of guys post their break-up and also, got their exes realize their mistake. The no contact rule has been the best instrument.