Break-Up : The Result Of An Unbalanced Relationship

A breakup is never easy. But even this breakup was important. You already have slept countless sleepless nights , engaged innumerable time in frustration. Break and space is needed in every relationship and understanding is very important. Hopefully your ex is living happily without you but you're yet struggling to forget them.

you valued them more than they deserved. you loved them more than they did. You gave them a place mightier than your almighty. you loved them from the deepest core of your heart and once whey they said “ i love you”, you began to fly in the air.

The world looked beautiful to you, you felt like you’ve achieved the one and only one zeal of yours. you felt yourselves on a bed of rose petals when they talked to you at night; you phoned them every-time - all night, all day and every-hour. you texted them “ i cannot live without you now” and they had replied you something like “ even i couldn't live without you my dearest”. Then you planned for your marriage, that would happen 5 years later. And then the two of you had even named your children who’d take birth 8 years after the two of you get married.

Then one day, they didn't reply to your text. “That's okay” you had told to yourself. Then they didn't receive your calls and from then on, you felt that fatal ignorance.

In the beginning you told yourself that ‘everything would turn normal’. But that didn't happen. Everything did not go according to your dream. You burnt like a hell, you cried all nights. You didn't like to eat, you didn't shave, you wanted to remain alone, undisturbed. loneliness sucked your shape. But still you loved her. I'm sure, you loved them even more when they had ignored you.

Now you call them 100 TIMES A DAY in a hope that they’d pick up your call and you may hear the most beautiful voice of this world. But all your 100s call go unanswered; all your beautifully composed long messages remain meaningless.

Now what did you do?

you begged. you cried. you followed them to check if they are dating someone. you exploded like an atom bomb from inside when you saw them making new love. you went and stood below their window, hoping to let them realize — that no other person in the world would love them more than you did.

Why this happened? (MISTAKES)

Because you treated them like god. you worshiped them! That's what you get if you worship a fucking shitt! you valued that fucking bastard more than he/she deserved. when they ignored you, you still went on to stick to them. you didnt only value them even more, you treated them like - they are the oxygen of your life. everything is so simple- as you eat only edible things , you wear whats worth wearing similarly - fuck that fucking shitt! do not love it. do not worship it.

Always keep everything balanced. If they had called you once in a day you should have called just once in a day. if they had messaged you with only one word, you should have replied them with just ONE word.

Never value them too much, otherwise you will loose your importance. Always keep your self-respect with you. if you don't respect yourselves, they wont respect you. Always treat them the way they treated you. Otherwise, you will be like a condom to them; first they will use you and then throw you away as soon as they find a new one.

A relationship can only continue to be healthy if it is balanced; only when the two of you respect each other equally.It is strange, when they were in relationship with you they didn’t tell you that they want to have sex and that they need a Fuck; and see them today — they are addicted to sex.

After a breakup, A girl becomes hotter and a boy becomes a writer, A painter or a singer or becomes more creativity. so, some people like you are still struggling to forget them; while they( you love) have not only forgotten you, the very next day after your break-up, but they do not even think of you for a while.

you are tired of begging and still calling and texting them. you are broken and with a long breakup beard upload a picture, in a a hope that they would search your Facebook i’d with a fake account ( As they have already blocked you) and get to know that how much you love them; and without, them looking good is just meaningless to you. oh My Fucking God!

The definition of Love has changed. And so, you have to stay updated with time. What I mean is - Grow up, be matured and go in relationship but do not fall in that fucking love. you’re already fucked up and every-night, everyday, every-hour your sadness and that bastard fucking desperateness fucks you all time. Is not that enough? Just look at yourself. GO. Go, and stand before that mirror. Is it You? desperate; Looser; Needy?

It’s Okay. Take ten deep breath and let it be. Stop crying. Delete all their Messages, photos ; throw away all their Gifts and anything you have. Think of revenge. Revenge? will you go and slap them? NO. You will move on. you will stop thinking about them. Moving on happily is the best revenge. There are two Options to you— you can date a new partner or think about your aim. Whatever you do, just DO NOT THINK ABOUT THEM. And yes- don't compromise with your look. Be attractive. Love yourself. Love your Parents. live fore yourself. There is a long journey ahead. Smile and Walk away.