Space

Ever wondered, two planets being very close to each other ? Chances are they’d clash with each other. Two best friends living door to door ends up being an enemy or at least their relation is no longer entitled to be the best friends. Generally, two families living nearby ruin their affiliation. Why this happens?

Space.

Two best people of this world- 1st you and 2nd your love fell in love some time ago. Everything was new, fresh, wow and wonderful; but today? Things may not be that good. In most of the cases, people get bored of this love and they feel nothing new. They feel it boring and burdensome. However, in some cases, a partner pretend to keep all new and fresh, but yet that is ephemeral.

5 Years ago, I remember, I was a sticky guy who would cling to his girl and ask and discuss every small and big deals of his life. Apart from this I’d also interfere in all her transactions. I would send her a daily morning message like a fellow bound to his duty. I’d tell her how I slept last night and then I’d text her when did I woke up, what my schedule for the following was and in return id ask hers; irrespective of knowing if she was interested or not. During afternoons I’d ask her, if she have had her lunch or not; then I’d call or text her at evening to know how she was doing and then at midnights I’d long to have a long conversation with her i.e. to show her that I was so caring and that I always kept thinking about her. I believed it to be a way of showing loyalty.

Girls as well as boys, finds it as a significance of care and adore in the commencement; but then with the passage of time, they feel done with all the topics and they are left with no new topics to discuss. If one calls you again and again, science says it, you feel offended and gradually you start to ignore them.

Similarly, If you stick to them and try to know everything that they think, they eat, they do and how many friends they have, how many of them are girls and how many of them are boys; which ones are trying to hit on your love blah…Blah… Ultimately they will start to falsify you. From then on, they will forge you even more. Just by agreeing that they love you, they don’t mean that they have dedicated their entire time to you. You will have to understand it.

If you are repeating all these steps and following the same path, then get prepared to be devastated. The truth is they already know that you love them and yet you’re acting like an illiterate. Surely you’re in danger. Soon, or before longer, you’ll notice signs that they are no longer in love with you.

Even after being such an honest and loyal lover, you feel ignored. Even after showering so much love and sincerity, true love suffers. Space plays a significant role in any relationship and since love these days is never about purity, the purest kind of love get overpowered and lust accepted. It is important to know the modern tricks and hacks in order to continue a relationship. Space is the most important among them.

So mend your mistakes. Give them space. Set them free. Learn to trust. The more free you let them, the longer you relationship shall be. Talk less over phone and even lesser through texts and instead ask them to see you outside on weekends. If you tell them everything happening around you in detail, then there will nothing be left to talk, when the two of you meet.

Let them miss you. Let them think and wonder about you instead. Let love remain at its position. Let them do their work so that they can achieve success. Since you love them, their success is yours success.

Apart from all these, follow the no contact rule with patience. Accept the truth. Never be the desperate emotional girl who begs for love. Have you ever been attracted to a beggar on the road? Begging for love is never attractive thus the more you plead the more you're going to lose your value. Have self respect and there are innumerable things to do.

I understand, it's not easy. But you've no other choice. Stop trying to show him that how very much you love him. The truth is that he already knows it. Keep yourself very much busy and harass your body as much as you can. This will help you in getting a good sleep.